How to Get Pregnant

Maybe you've stumbled onto my site because you want to get pregnant. 

Maybe you're here because you don't think that you can get pregnant. 

Or maybe you are one of those people who is not quite sure whether or not you want to get pregnant but you are making life choices that may lead you in that direction. 

No matter what your situation may be I am glad you are here and hope I can help!

For my people that want to get pregnant here are some tips to help you along the way:

• Make sure you have a good support system. I recommend a mate that you trust to be with you through the good and bad times. People often think they can handle things alone until something goes wrong and they need support to get through. 
• Be as natural as you can. Sperm donors are great but there is nothing like the natural process of creation. 
• Plan as much as you can. Speak about your child as if he/she already exist months-years before you have them. 
• Ladies, start taking prenatal vitamins the year before you plan to get pregnant to get your body ready for the baby. 
• Don't be abusive to your body. In the year before you plan to get pregnant cut out all the things you would have to cut out if your were pregnant (cigarettes, alcohol..etc)
• Be very safe in your sexual ventures. If you know you want to have a child within the next few years and still do not have a mate. Make it a point to not have sex with anyone you would not want to mother/father your children. This may mean a year or more of celibacy but that will only make it easier for you to get pregnant.
• Choose celibacy over birth control. I am no expert on birth control but anything that changes the natural pattern of your hormones will only make pregnancy harder! Instead of taking a million pills or getting all those patches and shots to not get pregnant. Try not having sex and letting your body prepare. 
• On the night you plan to create your child, if you are religious, pray that GOD bless your union and create a healthy child. If you are not religious speak your desires out loud. Ask your partner to put a child inside you and don't stop loving until he tells you that he is about to put the baby inside you. 

For people who don't think they can't get pregnant:

• Stop trippin! Just because you haven't gotten pregnant before does not mean that you can not get pregnant and that thinking may jinx you. 
• Don't have unsafe sex just because you have not gotten pregnant in the past. Sometimes pregnancy's can be a planned and controlled moment and other times it can be totally unexpected and random. So if you do not want to get pregnant. Don't have sex. But if you have to have sex at least use protection. 
• Clarify your intentions! Is it getting pregnant that you want or having children that you want because if you want to experience having something grow from a passionate moment into a human being then you should read the tips above but if you are more concerned about helping another person grow and learn then you may want to consider adoption as while you keep trying. 
• Don't let doctors fool you into believing that they can control the works of the supernatural. Doctors may have books and books of case studies on women who have suffered from illnesses, genetic disorders etc and never got pregnant but don't let them classify you too early. A doctor once told a man he would never walk again and he runs every morning today. A doctor once told woman that she would never be able to have children and she has had 6. Somethings are mind over matter and if you speak it into existence it may come to be. 
• If you and your partner have been trying and trying but have not gotten pregnant yet try some new systems! New positions and try it in new places. 
• If you truly believe that you can not have children maybe there is something inside you that does not want children and if that is the case, PLEASE do whatever you need to do to reduce your risks because children to do not ask to be brought into the world so when they do they should be wanted.

If you are not sure what you want but are not taking any steps to prevent pregnancy:

• Sit down and really think about where you are in life and what you want. Ask yourself if a child would help you get to where you want to go or slow you down. 
• Ask yourself if you have enough space in your physical and emotional spaces to fit a child. Is your home big enough? Are you mature enough?...
• Look at your partner, is he or she parent material? 
• Schedule a time to babysit a relative or family friend and observe how your partner interacts to the child. Try to keep the child for at least a day or two to test your partner's patience.
• Talk about children with your partner and see if you guys get closer or move farther apart.
• If you have more than one sexual partner, get tested! 
• If you have more than one sexual partner that you are having unprotected sex with, get tested and buy a ticket for Maury just in case you ever get pregnant. 

These are just some little tips and pointers for people that are interested in getting pregnant. I wish you all the best of luck and hope that you are all stable enough to have children. If you look around you you see that the world is made up of very different people. Some people are drop dead gorgeous some people have a face made for radio. Some people have 20/20 vision some people are born blind. So as you decide whether or not you are ready to have children or as you make choices that may make having children inevitable remember this: Life, unprotected sex and pregnancies are like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get!

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