I am a self proclaimed expert on this topic because my man has been through this. When he was in the "free" world conducting his affairs I was right by his side. Although the lifestyle we were living was crooked I wasn't straight anyways so crooked was headed in the same direction as I was. I know I am not the only woman that has lived la vida loca but more and more I see women taking the road too often travelled that leads them no where.
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Women who stick with their men through prison
Here is the situation:
Man and woman are together, they are modern day Bonnie and Clyde. They have no concern for all the good things that come to those who wait because they are too busy living day by day. Most of the times these people are young at mind and fools at heart and have the best intentions of being some sort of super power. They have high hopes and lowered expectations and usually know a few low people in high places. Somewhere down the road these people learned that money was the root of all evil that you can't do anything in the world without. They get money by any means necessary and don't think about consequences until the consequences are knocking at their door like opportunity.
These people live their life like they have nothing to loose and everything to gain but fail to realize that once they gain one thing, they then have everything to loose. Anyways, he hustles hard, she spends his money. They support each others needs and habits and everything seems to be all good until that one unfortunate but fortunate day.
This is the day that life ends and begins all over again. A chapter is closed and another is opened. The fearless man has fear and the lady realizes her confidence is not as strong without him. When he is taken out of her life and put into prison. He thinks back to all the money he had and how he got it and how that got him at the place that he sits thinking this thought. She thinks about all the things that she will have to do to be able to maintain on her own. He thinks of all the sex that he had and how long he will have to go on that memory. She realizes that there is a world of men and now for the first time in a long time she is by herself.
She is left to wonder should she leave or should she stay?
She has to weigh out all her options and make positive and negative list. She has to be realistic with everybody and know her own strength. She has to wonder if all this happened for a reason and figure out if the reason was to tell her to move on or the reason was to tell her to slow down and stand still. The selfish lives that they were living only made them distant from the people that used to care the most. For so long they only had each other so when they are apart they have two options: let things fall apart or keep the things together.
What do you think she should do?
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